We’re pretty new to the lifestyle. Just had our first full swap this weekend.

I know (now) that ED is an EXTREMELY common issue in swinging, especially for first timers.

I bet there’s a lot of dudes just like me that felt freaking terrible about themselves after this happened.

Thankfully our partners and this community have been amazing at making me feel a lot better and normal about it. I’d love to make sure that other guys have that same sort of reassurance or “warning” before jumping into bed.

Mods….from someone that should have browsed ALL the countless threads about this but didn’t, or at least didn’t take them to heart….you think we could sticky a discussion about it?

I think it would be awesome if there was a big ole “dudes… this will probably happen to you at some point” sticky so that it’s out there in big ole green letters and anyone coming here knows it’s a thing and to expect it and plan for it…physically and mentally.

I feel like it could save a lot of bad internal thoughts with my fellow bros out there and possibly make their experiences more comforting if/when this comes up

Anyone else agree?

Edit:

15 hours and 80% upvoted

Mods… make it happen. The handful of assholes here aren’t growing your sub.