Hello fellow swingers! Another review from our time at club M4 In Toronto Canada this past weekend for their Halloween event. First we’d like to thank everyone who has reached out about our stories or posts with your kind words. We love sharing our adventures either through our stories or pictures so we’re happy that others have found either enjoyment or have learned something from our experiences.
Now this was only our 3rd time at a club and 2nd time at M4, so even though we would consider ourselves “experienced” in the lifestyle we’re not so when it comes to clubs. Last time out we had success with setting up a meet and greet before heading to the club so this time around we thought we would try it again. However it did not work out as planned as we had quite a few responses to which it got a bit much to coordinate our plans with so we decided to just meet couples at the club who had reached out.
This is how our day went. We decided to get a hotel somewhere near the club for the night and got there pretty early. One of our friends who we hadn't seen in a while, reached out to us as they decided to go to M4 and saw our post. They invited us over to their hotel for a drink as they were staying close by, then we would head to the club together. It's definitely a lot more comforting for us at least to head to the club with friends.

Arriving at the club around 9:30ish there was a line but it wasn't as bad as we thought it would be and it moved rather quickly. Lucky for us we had free passes for the night as they were handing them out couple weeks prior at the Taboo Sex Show. Once inside we figured it would be a good idea to get a locker quickly as there were quite a few people there inside already. Sure enough soon after we heard the lockers were all taken so if you're ever going on a busy night make sure to grab that locker. Again we were there somewhat early so it wasn’t too packed yet. We decided to go get a drink and ease into the night as our friends were doing the newbie tour. They have 2 bars at M4. One was packed with people and the other not so much but there was just one bartender there and she was hustling. Took a bit but we got our drinks, they have the option to leave your credit card there to start a tab which we saw a lot of people doing. Not sure if that's the norm but we decided not. In the end I think that was a good choice because when the club started to get packed we never had a chance to get a drink again as there were so many people by the bar it would have taken quite a while to get a drink and our credit card back.
We ended up on the dance floor with our friends, we aren't big clubbers even in our vanilla life so we aren't big dancers either but it was fun just being around all those like minded people having fun seeing others' fun costumes. (I had a poor attempt at a pineapple costume and she was a sexy cat) The crowd that night seemed relatively young compared to the last time we were there, we would say it was a good mixture though. Another one of our friends showed up at the club and we had a few couples we had talked to online approach us to chat. It was nice being able to see them in the flesh, however it did get pretty packed so we weren't able to chat with most of the couples we had talked to prior. Again as much fun as the clubs can be, it can be hard to socialize with others there. Having to yell to talk to someone or get right up in their ear isn't the best for us so we decided to just dance and hangout with our friends most the night. We would have loved to connect with more couples we chatted with online but it just didn't work out for us.

Eventually she had enough dancing and asked me when we were going to fuck lol. We decided to check out the back area with our friends. Last time out we were lucky enough to get one of those private rooms. Which made the night better probably for us. This time around the play area had quite a few people in there, was pretty hot and the smell was of a hot sweaty room which one could expect from that many bodies. It just wasn't speaking to us that night. Also from all the dancing we were sweaty and not feeling too sexy to engage in the extra curricular activities in the back area. We ended up leaving the club with our friends and went back to our hotel. Which was much better in the end for us, we love hotel sex. We were able to shower and just hangout with our friends and do the sexy stuff.
In the end as much fun as clubs can be I would say for us we much prefer the more private setting. At a house or a hotel where we can make our own drinks, chat at a normal speaking level and roll around naked on a nice bed. We still want to check out Xclub on one of their newbie nights. We also think Oasis is a better club for socializing, as they have a pool or a hot tub you can relax in and just chat with other fun couples.
Here are some small tips if you decided to hit up a club for the first time:
1. Get a locker asap, makes life a lot easier

1. Bring flip flops if you plan on going into the play area or walking around in areas where you cant have clothes

2. Going with friends makes the experiences much better, at least for us

3. Go with the mindset that you are going to play or just be with your partner and if you meet someone cool if not that's cool too. Building expectations usually leaves for a let down of a night

4. Unless you plan to drink a lot or wait around the bar all night for drinks don’t leave your credit card at the bar

5. We live showing up somewhat early lets you settle into the night easier and get a drink easier

6. Having a hotel to go back to was a very nice for us at the end of the night

I'm sure there are many more but this post is getting long. If you have any other tips to share please do or have any questions feel free to ask. We love helping and sharing anyway we can.