We consider ourselves above average in the looks department, fit, and a fun couple but the amount of people we talk to who flake out on conversations and potential first meet ups is literally mind blowing!
Very discouraging, that people are so flakey and fake. If you really have 0 interest in meeting up 1. Why are you on apps 2. Why do you send messages 3. Why do you waste your time on the conversation at all?
Interesting, we go out every weekend and during the week for drinks and dinner so itās not hard for us to meet people in real life and we actually enjoy it. Does not mean that just because we agree to meet there is going to be sex involved.. we go with the flow, if there is chemistry and time permits great if there is no vibe then we made some new potential friends and we move onā¦ Itās really not hard. You are right people are sooooo lazy!
The people I am talking about go so far as to ask us to meet and we give available times and they go radio silent or cancel the do of and we never hear from them. Itās wild! Why let it fade why not be upfront?
I only prefaced that to say that we are decent looking humans, not expecting anything better just common courtesy of not wasting my time. We are all busy and if people have 0 intentions of actually following through then I donāt really have time for that. We are all here for a reason. Making assumptions only makes an ass out of youā¦ no one here has an ego. I just posted a post looking to see if others experience the same thing and from over 20 comments in a short period of time we are not the only onesā¦
Sls has an app that you download to your phone.. I know the difference in apps and websites.. thanks thoā¦
We recently had a couple reach out to us on SLS and they we āvery interestedā we scheduled to meet for drinks per their schedule, a few hours later they saidā¦ āson just realized he has practice that night, can we reschedule for next weekā is āsureā let us know what time to be there.ā Silenceā¦ Went into SLS yesterday to message to see if they had a time in mind and the entire conversation string is completely gone! Disappearedā¦
We live in a very conservative state, that could definitely play a part
You win the best comment of the day! Thank you š
Few exchanges and try to schedule.
Oh I am so real! Iāll always be that way! I hate flakey people. If your really not into it piss off.. stop wasting peopleās time. If people have 0 intentions of meeting whatās the point of even discussing it. I would rather clip my toenails than waste my time pretending to be something that Iām notā¦
Really? How are you picking up on ego from my posts? Genuinely curious?
Those are the apps I am referring too!
And talking about how they can sense I have an ego from my posts? Do you sense ego?
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Makes a ton of sense. Disappointing for use who really enjoy being with others..