The wife and I have been married 11 years and are barely dipping our toes into this lifestyle. However, tonight as we were discussing about this LS to each other, she mentioned about potentially swinging with the man she was trying hide her relationship from me.Immediately, I just felt disgusted that she would even mention that and she didn’t think it was a big deal. I told her exactly how I felt that it was completely out of the question and why would she even consider it.

Back story.

The past year was been really good. After overcoming my wife’s infidelity (emotional cheating) that almost ended our marriage, our time together has been the best it’s been in a long time. (Long story short, she developed a relationship with a man while she was away for work and tried to hide it multiple times) She swore that nothing sexual occurred but only emotional.

Reason I’m posting this is because after talking with her during dinner, I had calmed down but after coming home, I am a still be upset at the situation. Any advice would help to see what I can do from here. Thank you!