Hi friendly folk. My wife and I would like to go to a club down in Denver next week, the scarlet ranch. Never been, all new. However we both test pos for the dreaded H. It sucks, she has never had anything with it, and I had one blister group over 7 years ago. I snagged a new antiviral bottle at my last physical to start taking for safety. we would like some advice on what to do? We aren’t planning on any full swap stuff. Maybe flirting kissing which should be fine, and her and I could still get off together.. I hate having this weigh on me and need to know how and when to bring it up. Actually, should we even go at all?? Will we be shunned and embarressed? Should we keep it to ourselves this time and refrain from anything below the waist to see if we like it there first? But then what if we do like it, and want more, then what to do?

i know there are several threads on this, but i think direct responses to certain situations would be helpful.