For those of you who are newish to the LS this could be an “important” read.

We had a very laid back weekend, all of our usual friends we’re busy with family and vanilla friends this weekend. We had an opportunity to go to the new LS club that recently opened in our area but spending $60 vs $10 at an LS friendly bar, the $10 seemed to be more our style. We knew that there would be a decent turnout of cheap swingers there and we also planned a meet and greet with a newish couple as well.

Once we got there we immediately bumped into a couple we meet some 8 months ago, that we never did anything with. Also a couple that we meet 2 months ago at a small house party, the new couple and a another couple we’ve casually meet a few times we’re all at the bar last night. With the exception of the new couple and ourselves we all knew each other from one place or another.

Aside from some flirting and casual touching it was a very vanilla night that wound up with plans getting made with the new couple and the couple we meet many months ago, invites to a house party with the couple we meet 2 months ago and a friendship starting with the couple we’ve casually known for a minute.

I’m not sure if we’ve somehow grown more desirable in the LS or if we’re just being taken more seriously now. But I will say this, just hang in there, personal growth gets noticed, and always remember, it’s all for fun.