*****This may or may not be posted in the correct forum and be on "topic" for this forum but I am at a loss****\*

This question, rant, and embarrassing confession are more directed at the men but I'll take any and all advice!

So last night we hosted another couple for an evening of playtime. They showed up late which didn't sit well with us and also gave us way too much extra time to have cocktails. About them: They are in their mid-forties, and we are in our late 50's. We had already planned on as soon as they got here to just jump right into things so as soon as they got here they disrobed. Both of them were in great shape! He was well endowed and she had a rockin' little body and was very submissive.

No sooner did he get undressed than my wife was all over him and his GF was all over me! Pretty good deal huh? Not really! So watching and sharing each other has always been a huge turn-on for me and the wife and I generally sport a huge major hardon all night...just NOT last night!!!!! No matter how hard I tried I just couldn't get a full erection let alone keep it when I did get the least bit hard.

I know everyone has performance issues from time to time but this was my FIRST time EVER suffering this 'event'! Maybe it was the beer but I've had way more than I had last night and all was well! While we all had a pretty good time I fear they not only will not want to play again, and my wife REALLY liked him because I 'failed to rise to the occasion'. At 57 am I headed toward the blue pill, and/or are my days of being a stud bull over? I could hardly sleep last night with this on my mind!