TL;DR Went to a club, met up with some couples had an orgy and a great night

Another adventure in the books for us in the lifestyle, this time it was at the sex club M4 in Mississauga. We’ve been in the lifestyle and enjoying the company of couples for about a year now. However we’ve primarily done meet ups at hotels or being hosted by our friends. This was our second time at a club and it was honestly amazing. This is a bit of our review on Club M4 and If you are new to the lifestyle, I hope our experience helps give you a bit of an insight into the world and maybe help you take the chance on a club or meeting other couples. Also we would like to know how others prefer to enjoy the lifestyle. Do you go to clubs? meet people online to meet up at hotels or bars, house parties, resorts?

I (M) wouldn't consider myself a shy person but (F) is the more shy/introverted type so the club dynamic wouldn't be our first choice of a night out as it's pretty intimidating trying to approach a random couple and spark up a conversation, especially at a sex club with the intent of trying to build some rapport to go to the back and fuck. Being as nervous as we were, we decided to make a post to see if any couples wanted to meet up before or at the club as we figured it would be much easier to go with people. Lucky for us we had a few couples reach out, some new and others we had chatted with before but never had the pleasure of meeting in person. We ended up going to a bar close by to the club and 2 other couples joined us for a drink. We had never done something like this before, bringing together couples who had never met so we were not sure how it would go or if any of us would even vibe or like each other. Surprisingly it ended up working out pretty well. We all got along, shared some experiences and just had some good conversations. It was nice being able to just be out with like minded couples like that and just chat.

After a bit we all decided to go to the club together, two of us being new to the club we got our tour. The club looked nice, it was pretty much what we expected, not too many people were there when we arrived. The crowd I would say was mostly on the older side but there were a few young couples there as well. After our tour, the 6 of us got together again after getting our drinks and sat in the lounge area chatting some more. Eventually a 4th couple joined us that we had chatted with online who happened to be coming to the club the same night and shortly after we all made our way to the dance floor. I'll be honest, it's been a long time since we had gone dancing but it was pretty fun (not that I could dance well or anything). I remember looking out onto the dance floor at all the other couples and thinking “wow what a life to live” and just had a big smile on my face the whole time as it felt like everyone there had reached a new level of happiness and we got to be around all of them. The energy and vibe was great.

Once we all got a little too hot and tired from the dancing we decided to take the fun to the back. Again our first time so we were not too sure how it worked here with how naked we should be but I ended up with a towel and my boxers and my partner had sexy lingerie on but ended up just taking it all off and going naked. I do wish I had brought flip flops as I asked some of the naked couples around us what was the norm and they all suggested flip flops. Once we all got ready, we headed to the play area where it seemed like most of it was starting to be covered by naked bodies. Luckily for us a private room opened up just as we were walking by and one of the guys in our party jumped at the chance and got it for us. The room was nice, it was a bit hot in there with the door closed so we opened it up at one point and had a few couples standing by the door watching, which was new for us but we didn't mind.

I think we were all a bit nervous as it was our first time together so everyone just started off with their own partner. Eventually I asked if my partner could help the other girl go down on her husband as I love watching her please other men. After that things opened up and everyone got a bit more comfortable and all of a sudden the orgy was in full swing - tits flailin', asses smackin' so much ass clappin it sounded like an applause. At one point it was getting too hot that one of the wives and I left to get water for everyone. It was just funny to come back to the orgy still in progress, have a drink and then jump back into it with her.

Won’t get into too much detail about the orgy to try and keep the post short but it was great, being able to see my partner pleasured by multiple men and spit roasting other women with other guys was amazing. It ended up going pretty well I'd say for a group of new people who had just met for the first time. That's something we love about the lifestyle, a group of like minded adults who can just be free and have fun with each other like that is the way we want to live our lives and we are living it to the fullest. I know the lifestyle isn't for everyone and everyone is in it for different reasons but if you are one of the lucky people who can be part of this and just fully enjoy yourselves, you’ve really reached a new level of happiness and life. We ended up leaving the club at 2am and a few of us went to get late night burgers together. Overall it was a great night with some great couples we hope to see again in the future.

I will say as nice as M4 was, I’m not sure how often we will return, as we do prefer the hotel and 2 on 2 aspect of the lifestyle a bit more. Just being able to get to know a couple on that level a bit more and feel more close to them in private is a much better experience for us. Also the bed we were on was a bit awkward. The height of it and the edges hurt my knees and it got a bit too hot in there. Maybe there were just too many of us for that room but being in a private room like that was probably better for our group then the main play area. Everything else about the club was great though, the staff were super friendly, the bartenders were very nice. They definitely helped make the experience better and I would say overall the staff is what makes M4 a great club.

If you’ve managed to read this far, thank you. Again, it was always our hope that through our stories and adventures in the lifestyle that we can help new couples find their way and get more comfortable with the idea of opening up their relationship to all the fun and experiences the lifestyle has to offer. It's truly has been a game changer for us and our relationship, from the sex we have with each other, the communication, and the trust one needs to be able to explore all of this.

Again, for us we still prefer hotels with couples and date nights. What do the majority of people you run into prefer as their go to time for fun?