Fairly new to the LS but I’m curious if it’s normal for me (M37) to not be included in the conversation online?
Recently we joined a local swinger site that has serval offshoot chats on telegram. We were messaged on the site but I guess they (the couple/man and my fiancé) started chatting with my fiancé on the telegram server then moved to Snapchat. The thing is once they started talking to her and completely abandoned the chat with me. Which was dry to begin with.
I’m trying to decide if I’m thinking too deep into this. Wouldn’t we want a chat that all parties were getting to know one and other? I feel like if this went through it would be weird for them to have gotten to know each other for a month or more then bring me in right before play.
The husband has already stated he wants separate room play which I’m ok with but part of me thinks they/he is just trying to wife poach.
For my fiancé’s part she’s said she’s happy to block them.
Tldr; couple is talking to my female fiancé and ignoring me.
Thanks for the advice! This is exactly what we did. I told her I was uncomfortable with a group chat not including me and showed her the dismissive messages on the main site and she agreed. She is a block quick type of person. I would have preferred to just tell them but guess we live and learn.
How does that go for you? Genuine question. If one partner is not included in the chat is weird when you all show up to play?
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She offered to do that or give me the wife’s chat.