Myself and my husband had a discussion this weekend about swinging. We're both a little curious, but more interested at this stage in 'soft swinging' doing things with each other with others watching and visa versa,

He's more comfortable with watching me with another woman, and 'maybe' another guy. I'm less comfortable but opening to trying things if things go well.

Are there any clubs in London that may be suitable for us going along together to watch and not be under any pressure to get involved if we don't want to?

I'm don't want to feel I'm ruining other peoples vibes by saying no all of the time if we don't want to get involved with other couples.

Any other suggestions about how we can progress this safely?