This is piggybacking off of a recent post about whether you prefer to be the more or less attractive couple when swinging. I'm fully prepared to catch shit for this one so feel free to dish it out. Sorry for the lengthy story.

My wife and I have been going to clubs for a little over a year. Had our first full swap two months ago. Joined Kasidie two months ago and went to a meet and greet that was fun but didn't end in much. A few weeks ago we joined Feeld. A week ago I (M) connected with the male half of a couple. My wife thought he was attractive and we both agreed that she was very very attractive. We started a 4person chat on Kik. Found out they have never done anything LS related and just recently joined Feeld. Convo went well, we asked if they wanted to meet up, they invited us to their house this past Saturday.

Woman from the other couple has an OF and she cross posts on other social media so we saw many pics. We get over to their house and she is, somehow, even hotter in real life. I'm a 5 and my wife is a solid 7 on our arbitrary scale. The other woman is a 9 . I'm instantly intimidated. But she is super sweet and we all get along really well. We have a lot in common and her husband is a really good dude. We could all hangout outside of the LS.

We end up deciding to play "Game of Lifestyle" starting first with conversation cards and eventually moving to action cards. First time we ever used the cards, its actually really awkward, but it got things going. We had no idea there would be any play, we were totally content with hanging out. And then my wife suggests that we all soft swap and they didn't hesitate to say yes. The soft swap was amazing and she was very enthusiastic. Afterwards they suggest we do this again soon. We are them meeting again this weekend and are so excited.

My issue: the day after I am having some issues with just how hot she is and how hot I'm not. Put Jeff Bezos head on MGK body and that's pretty close. I'm limited to how much I can improve my appearance. As an ectomorph, can't add mass, I've tried. I don't know if il get more comfortable with this over time or what I can do to improve myself. Or should I just stop being a whiny bitch and accept that I/we struck gold?