So like the title says, wife and I were at a hotel takeover yesterday. A couple we had been messaging online a few times but hadn't met in person to see if we clicked showed up. No problem, we love to meet people if nothing else.

Wife and I enjoy the mental connection as far as friendship as much if not more then the added sexual adventures. The wife from the new couple, comes up to me and says "Just to you know, we called dibs on you and only want you to play with tonight. "

Umm what? All of this is supposed to be mutual. And it's not that there isn't an attraction, but my mind literally locked down thinking "That dog don't hunt here ." And ended up going with the plans I originally had for last night.

Anyone have this happened to them? I don't know if it's because we already have people coming from all angles at us because of my wife's appearance due to her height and hair color, but that set off all kind of red flags in my mind.

Am I just being an asshole in this situation or?