We have came across attractive single males online and in person but yet all seem to have the same core red flags that kill the buzz. I’m sure y’all have all had these issues as well. Here are some helpful hints for them. (Feel free to add to educate😉)

1A. Do not send unsolicited nudes. (This includes your dick)

1B. Do not send unsolicited nudes. (This includes your dick)

1. Do not continue to ask for nudes from the couple. If you want stroking material, go find some porn. They will determine when to send what, not because you’re asking for it.

2. If you think your God’s gift to earth, save that talk to the girl at the bar during closing time who is so drunk it actually interest her.

3. If you want to send pictures, seeing your everyday attire or maybe gym pictures are ok. Just don’t over do it. Women can be stimulated by what you’re wearing, not always by what you are not.

4. Be more interested in getting to know the couple than actually having sex with the couple. Because, if chemistry outside the bedroom is great, sex inside the bedroom will be better.

5. Not every couple is the same, treat them as so.

6. Ask questions and listen. You’ll tend to make less mistakes when you know things about them vs assuming things about them.

7. Be sure to ask the male of his preferences and desires, not just hers.

8. You’re goal is to make the couple feel comfortable, respected, and understood.

9. Take a viagra or something before playtime. First times can be very overly stimulating.