My gf and I just had for first threesome and i thought I’d share the experience because i looked at this subreddit a lot before and it was really helpful.

My gf and I have been together 6 years and have been strictly monogamous the whole time. I have always been interested in spit roasting her with another guy so finally we pulled the trigger. We signed up for the app feeld and immediately got hundreds of people interested (lol). We picked a guy who seemed chill and we let him control my gf’s lovense vibrator with out meeting up. That went really well so we invited him over.

We were both really nervous. Like really really nervous. When he showed up we opened a bottle of wine and just hung out for a bit. (the wine and the weed was crucial for suppressing nerves and awkwardness). After we finally got started we had a blast.

Unfortunately it was like 90 degrees in our house so we all had to keep taking water breaks. At one point i left to get water and walked back in on our 3rd fucking my gf doggy and being really rough. Rather than making me jealous I found it really hot.

After he left me and my gf kept making out and snuggling for a long time. We were genuinely surprised at how close we felt afterward. Like I can’t believe how much closer i felt to her after she fucked someone else.

All in all, very positive time! I’m glad this reddit was here to help give us advice and I hope this helps someone else.