My husband and I have had plenty of experience in the hotwife and mfm arena, but we are starting to play with the idea of meeting couples. I’m wondering how couples usually go about the chatting phase. Do the husbands talk to each other? The wives? Do the husbands talk to the other wives? Group chat? All of the above lol? Do any of you have certain rules and/or boundaries in the chatting phase and if so what are they?
We are a same room full swap couple, so we always do group chats. For us it’s usually in Kik or discord. The chat is a way to get to know a couple a bit before meeting to determine if we think we will make a connection, send some more pics to make sure the ones on the app aren’t 20 years old, discuss limits, experience, play styles and rules and boundaries. It’s a fun way to flirt and build sexual tension
We generally have a 4-way chat prior to playing. If the chemistry is right and everyone is comfortable with it sometimes do m/f chats but that is reserved for couples we really like and have a strong 4-way connection with. Having said all of that; we've only been in the LS for about a year so your mileage may vary.
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