Hi! We're a newbie couple to all this and wanted an opinion! We recently soft swapped with another couple after getting to know them a little and had a great time. We're thinking of doing a MFM threesome now and were wondering about etiquette/what most people do. Do you ever hit up people from online and skip getting to know them and go straight to sex or do you always try and sit down with the people first in a public place? Personally would rather just go straight to the bedroom since it'll be a one night stand situation and we're not too interested in getting to know them, but I imagine it would be safer to get to know them first and make sure they're safe. Looking to hear opinions or horror stories to help us decide!