• Posts about beautiful women and ugly men. Yet in real life we’ve met a mix of beautiful and men and women we we’re attracted to.

• Posts about flaky people. We meet up with people outside of the bedroom and plan a play date. If the play date happens that night cool. Cancellations seem to happen at very low rates from both us and others and it usually is due to kids, monthly cycle and health.

• Posts about people in this sub worrying about size (both body and dick) thinking we’re a exclusive bunch. This one doesn’t make sense to me since so many have the assumption that all the husbands are ugly. We’ve been to parties and seen it all. Sometimes the larger ones leave the most satisfied, sometimes they don’t.

• Post telling people not to give out names and phone numbers. I’ll start by saying that we don’t give our numbers out to everyone but with the ones we have given our numbers out to we’ve had a total of zero issues from doing it. We set a meet and greet, if we wanna plan something else we exchange phone numbers. If we meet at a party and decide we want to meet again, we exchange phone numbers.

• Posts about unicorns being super rare. Turns out they’re actually pretty common, but most of them don’t “hunt” on apps / websites and they tend to be prone to being poly.

As I see more and more of these posts I’m starting to think that the authors of them are either looking for a way out of swinging and need us to confirm their points or their so anxious for making something happen rather than just enjoying life. Always remember that it’s all for fun.