Question(s) for the experienced. We are intrigued by the lifestyle and have played only once, years ago, with a female friend. Visited 2 clubs but just watched so I’d say we’re pretty new.

Lately I fantasize about watching my wife with another guy, but also participating, MFM, and told my wife what I was thinking. She’s on board but here’s my dilemma/question.

For the guys, in particular, were you nervous, worried, jealous or hesitant? If so, did you actually go through with it? How did you manage these feelings? How did it turn out in the end? Worth it?

It all sounds great and super hot in my head but struggling to figure out if it would be better left as a fantasy?

Thanks in advance. I’ve been reading on this board for quite some time and appreciate the honest information so many have contributed.