Yeah, I know that I'm going to get roasted and this is more of a rant but we were not expecting this to this exent and we're wondering how prevalent it is now in the ls. Did we just get lucky or is there really more to come? We're in Portland, Oregon if that matters here.

So the thing went down like this: About a year ago we popped onto Kasidie and immediately it was a swarm of OF.. We noped out. So this past month we got back on Kasidie after swearing it off for good (deleted it again and swore it off for good again now) and it was even more OF! It was actually worse than it was a year ago!! Like 3 out of 4 who contacted us were OF. And honestly the other 1 in 4 could have been but we deleted our account before we could find out! LOL! Within two or three messages they tell us that they are CoNteNt CrEAtoRs and they "swing to make content". Then go on about how it's not about the money but the money is good and they only swing to create. Three of couples I continued to engage with - I was just trying to figure out their angle - all kept trying to sell it on us, like used car salesman! A few of them even mentioned that swingers are "prime demographics" for them because we "don't care who we fuck" - SERIOUSLY! That was their words!

And get this, our profile mentions in three places in a very short About Us that discretion is utmost importance to us due to our careers (we don't mention it but we're both military so yeah it's a real issue). Why would they think that we'd still be interested in making porn with them??? We even got the "but we don't even list that we are in the US" like that makes it all better?

On the second to last day that we had our account, I think it was only 8 days that we had it in total, I put up at the start a big, "WE ARE NOT GOING TO MAKE CONTENT WITH YOU". Totally dick, totally tacky and shit but I was tired of it. And guess what? Yep, two more OF creators came in... Said fuck it all and deleted it, again.

It's one thing if it were here and there, kinda like annoying single dudes, but this was almost ALL of them! I wasted so much time just chatting with them, like spammers on a whole other level, that I actually found myself getting pissed at ALL OF creators. I mean, they are spammy as shit but good for them making money.

We're not ever going to do kasidie again and we'll be going back to the clubs more and hopefully having these conversations in person but I am still blown away with how it appears that everyone's now CoNTENt CrEaToRs. Sheesh. I thought for sure that it was a fad and the market was going to saturate out the majority of them.

And fwiw, I'm not angry that they are doing what they do, good for them, I'm just mad that they are in the ls only to make content and think that we are here for them. And also that there are just so many of them... And they are spammy af.... And they are like used car salesman.... And they don't respect and/or read profiles....