OK, long story short, my wife and I (both white) met this black couple at a party that we ended up vibing with them really well. We exchanged numbers, made our mutual interest known, and have set up a date this weekend. But now, I'm starting to get into my head.
One of my favorite things when I'm with a women is petting, gently (or not gently) pulling, or running my hands through her hair. My wife loves it, I love it, my other swapping partners have loved it. However, I have never been with a black woman and I also know a white dude touching a black woman's hair is sort of loaded with political/social bullshit. I *really* don't want to piss off the hot woman I might be having sex with later.
So, basically, should I ask about that, or would I come off as weird/creepy? Should I just avoid that altogether? Or am I thinking too much about this, and I should just do what would come naturally and stop if/when she tells me to?
Bro as someone who is with a woman of color just donβt do it lol
Extremely considerate of you, kudos. Like others have said, just ask. Iβve been in similar situations prior to a play date and it goes a long way to just have the conversation. Always remember, a good talk is the gateway to good foreplay! ππ
Have fun!
Just ask her hubby (black or white) what she's into. They'll give you the blueprint for success. ππΎ
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