Is anyone else the same as me? I would be interested to know so I don't feel so alone.
For me when I feel sexual attraction to someone and then have sex with that person the first time is always out of this world amazing for me and I have not had any complaints from the other person at all, on the contrary. Then the 2nd time is also amazing, not as good as the first and then it dwindles until about the 10th/12th time and for me there is no sexual attraction to the other person anymore and hence no sexual desire to have sex with the other person anymore. Is sex still enjoyable? in terms of the feeling of sexual stimulation, yes it still feels nice, but no sexual attraction to the other person or sexual desire towards the other person anymore. I still see the other person as very good looking but not sexually anymore. If the relationship progresses as lasts months and years my love, compassion and devotion for the other person increases with time but the sexual attraction and desire to have sex with my partner has vanished after about the 12th time of having sex, even though I still do have sex with my partner as I love them and want to please them even though there's no desire or excitement for me anymore. No matter if there's loads of things done to make it exciting nothing works. Even though the relationship is stronger than ever emotionally and love wise and the other person is just as eager or often more eager to have sex with me, I am so annoyed at myself and do everything I can't to change how I feel.