Just go on the swingers cruises as others have said.

Here is the problem and it applies to a lot of things. So I will take the extreme example for this narrative. Being a Christian in the lifestyle I am always asked...

"There is a couple from Church and they are very sexy and give off a sexy vibe. Should we approach them?"

The answer is NO! You have not idea what repercussions this could have. On a cruise ship, think someone is giving off the vibe - NO! What if you are wrong and they freak out and tell the cruise line about it. You could get the boot. I have chatted with someone that this made this mistake at Sandals resort. They were asked to leave... no refund... not welcome to come back.

I have enjoyed many a pre-arranged play-date. On the Swingers Cruises, at Naughty in N'awlins (one of my favorite annual adventures), visiting other cities, other lifestyle clubs, all over the US and Canada. Even a few fun times in Europe.

But almost every meet up has been arrange with couples on Kasidie, SDC or Quiver. I have also used other sites in the past, Couples Touch, Lifestyle Lounge, which were also great options at that time.

Only one time can I state an exception to this. At a Prince concert in Dallas, Texas, I was totally hammered and I hit on the couple next to me and they went with us to the 13th Floor that night and I molested the crap out of both of them. It was their first and her first bi-experience. I was lucky that night...