MFM or FMF. I’m in no way against either of these activities but it makes me wonder why so many don’t have a desire to start with swapping. For us it was so easy to start with wanting to swap, first time was parallel play at a club, second time was a soft swap (due to Mother Nature’s timing for the other wife) and the 3rd time was a full swap.
Please enlighten me because the only conclusion I can come up with in wanting to start with threesome is because one of the partners is jealous or is perceived to be jealous by the other partner. If that’s the case my final thought is why do this in the first place?
It’s much easier to match with one person. Also it’s easier to play in a threesome, everyone takes turns being center of attention. There isnt any jealousy, we’ve played both FFM and MMF, If we found the right couple we’d happily swap.
I’m not sure people flaking out or whatever happens with more or less frequency, couples or singles, it happens both ways in our experience. Single guys tend to be the most reliable and frankly easiest to deal with in our experience.
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That does make sense, thanks for sharing.
Our biggest issue with couple swapping is we’re probably too picky, neither of us wants to take one for the team. Also we seem to just have bad luck, I doubt the majority of the guys are assholes but we’ve managed to meet a lot of them. 😀