Doing some research for a kink/lifestyle podcast I work on. Someone asked the question: Why does it seem so few long term relationships are being made within the lifestyle?

Is that true or not?

Have you entered a long term relationship with someone you met through the swinger or kink scene?

Would you seek out a long term partner at parties or on swinger websites and apps?

Do you think the lifestyle is a good or bad place to look for a long term partner?

(Nobody’s username or any other information will be used, just gathering views to start identifying themes.)

[Edit: every time I post on this sub there are so many toxic replies that I regret doing so. Congratulations to all the piece of shit gatekeepers! We are ENM in spite of your poison culture]