We see a lot of posts about how many of the men in the LS don’t quite stack up physically. These men are often paired with beautiful women who get themselves all done up for dates/clubs/parties etc. It is well known that women will get the majority of the attention. The thing that is often overlooked is that your male partner is part of your appearance. The female-to-male attraction is often the deciding factor. You can be a knockout but if your partner can’t attract other women then you can’t play. The solution: help the guy out. Provide input on his fashion choices. Take pictures with him, or better yet, of him. Talk him up when you are out on dates. Make the other women see what you see in him. If you don’t pull your man up he’ll pull you down. It’s a team sport. His success is your success.

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I’m not saying it’s fully a woman’s responsibility to make her man attractive. What I am saying is, if you see your man struggling, help him out. That just how marriages work (at least that’s how ours works), swinging or otherwise.