The other day there was a post about boundaries and u/sanchothatshesfound said that something along the lines of boundaries need to go both ways and he and gave the example of the couple that won’t allow the wife to be touched but the husband can play with both women.

I have never come across this until reading that comment and now we’ve been messaged by 3 couples in a row that are looking for exactly this. The profiles read something like this: “we are looking for single women or married women with a hall pass” “we all 4 can have dinner and drinks together but we’re not looking for a couple with a man that wants to be involved” “she desires to be with other women and he desires to be with other women too, neither of us want another man involved”.

So I updated my page stating “We will both be involved, neither of us are for watching”. I hope that’ll work.