We're really hitting it off with another couple that love to travel, drink the same kinds of wines, listen to the same genres of music, appreciate the same films and generally appreciate life in the same way we do.

We both REALLY like the couple.

We had a talk the other night about how much compersion I feel for my wife, because she's into the girl and I think she's an amazing person too, and then the husband is an amazing guy to boot. They're both sexy AF.

I looked my wife in the eyes and told her "I want T to fuck you, I want you to enjoy him." She looked at me, smiled, and said, " I want the same for you with her!"

But what we talk about more often than not is the desire to travel with them and take them to different places for food and wine/cocktails and atmosphere.

Is there a word or a description of this that is common in the swinger community? I don't really like labels on things but sometimes words can help me to compartmentalize and wrap my head around something, all while feeling elated/happy.