I just wanted to relate the situation we had last night and check if my own reading of it was ok. So the wife and I are pretty new in the lifestyle and we had a meeting with another couple yesterday. We had a great time all afternoon and during dinner, but then when the clothes started coming off it seemed like the vibe changed a bit. My wife and the husband were kissing and touching each other and were doing well but it seemed like she was not too interested. She said she was but kept looking at her husband and, I don’t know, it seemed like she was mad or angry. We switched back to our own spouses for a bit and things got back on track so to speak and foreplay was going well. We switched back and piv started and at first everything was good but again she just didn’t seem into it. No moans of encouragement or anything else. Meanwhile my wife is riding him and having a great time. It got to me and I couldn’t stay hard. The husband and my wife finished and so we all called it a night. Afterwards I talked with my wife and she said yea it was a little weird because she kept watching them. I don’t know if it was jealousy or maybe she was self conscious about something else. Both me and the other guy are about the same attractiveness with similar cock sizes, I’m s as bit longer while he was a bit thicker so I don’t think that was an issue. My wife is more attractive than her and I think maybe she was concerned about her weight but I was pretty clear I found her sexy. It was just hard to stay hard with her not really participating. Now I feel like “that” newbie husband. We’ve had play time with others and I’ve never had a problem before. Wife and I had a good time after they left. No booze or drugs.

Just not sure I read the situation correctly and maybe some of you have some advice.