As they title says, we recently went on a date with another couple and I really liked them but my partner didn’t feel any attraction. Now we do play separately as well so I want to suggest that! How do I tactfully tell them this so there is no bad feelings of rejection?
English is not my first language so struggling coming up with something good to say :/
You don’t. Where did you guys find this couple? If it was online, does their profile say that they are open to males/females? Does your profile say that yall play separately? I personally wouldn’t tell them that only one is interested. Yall went on a date for a potential mfmf. If one of us didn’t find the other attractive, we would just turn them down as a couple. Now, if they have read your profile or know that yall play separately, thats on them to come and tell you that they are interested, even if it’s just one of yall. But to try and exclude one of them, just because yall play separate, is wrong. Most couples would get their feelings hurt knowing that you don’t find their partner attractive. Rejecting one is probably worst than rejecting both.
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