I am a single Indian (35) guy in US east coast (not born here) fit and HWP. Active in SLS and SZC and by active i log in, look around and try to be respectful and make a legit connection (or else it doesnt work for me). Never spam with dick pics saying "me you boom boom" Always make sure i respond to everyone. Refers to the husband always when talking to a couple. Literally have been following all the pointers mentioned in this sub for single guys way before i even read them here. We chat, get to know and We even decide on a meet date and time. But as soon as they ask my ethinicity its radio silence. Handful of couples/single ladies mentioned they had bad experience from indian guys so not interested in meeting me. I mean WTF !! I dont know what, but i hardly doubt its the "bad experience" thing and more a racial barrier. This is regarding US couples. Not to get started with brown couples. They out right block me without even any interaction. I get the whole secrecy in indian community on this. But i dont think any indian will rat you guys out. Cmon, Its an understood secret agreement when people interact on such platforms like SLS.

So yea TL;DR .. a single brown guy is ignored everywhere. Not sure if its same for any other ethinic group. If i am doing anything wrong i am open for suggestions from fellow members. Only thing left to do is to go to any LS clubs and try my luck. But i am loosing confidence in that too.