I'm not a petite female. I'm also not overly obese, standing at 5'7" and 180lbs. Just a little thicker than most, although my physique doesn't look terrible. My man is fit, 150lbs and 6ft. Our faces are generally cute. I'm finding that when we send photos, we are pretty much ghosted right after. Should I disclose my weight right off the bat? It seems like it just isn't what most are looking for. I can't imagine THAT many people recognize us when they see a photo. I sure haven't recognized anyone we know yet.

Note: not trying to get any sympathy or self-esteem, just wondering if I need to try something else to save some time. Spending lots of time connecting and getting to know other couples before we send photos and then getting ghosted.