I was/am in the same boat as you. I think there are guys that are conventionally attractive, but also not my type. This entire time, I have only found 2 guys who were actually my type, and guess what….They were my LEAST favorite lol I totally understand the whole feeling frustrated, and like giving up. Finding people online will never work for me since I know I can be a bit judgmental when it comes to peoples pictures/profile. There’s ALWAYS something wrong. And that’s more of a ME problem. What has worked for me is meeting people in person (clubs, meet & greets, parties, etc.) Once I see guys in action like having fun, dancing, being goofy, the way they interact with others, I’m automatically drawn to them. Where in a profile, I’d never be able to see this part of them. Setting up dates to meet face to face also felt like too much of an interview and unnatural. Everything that has happened in the moment has definitely been much more fun. Hope this helps!