My wife and I are new to the lifestyle. We had experiences early in our dating, nothing for 15 years, and are now up on a few websites and making connections. We have yet to play but are honing in on what we want and how to get it.

We will be in Mexico for a business trip so are tacking on 2 nights at Desire Pearl. Mind you, we’ve never been to a swingers club nor have we hooked up with another couple or single. What should we expect at Desire Pearl?

If you’ve been, please share with us any and everything. What is the vibe like? What can we expect to see and experience? How is the food and the rooms? If we aren’t planning to do any swapping but instead play in parallel with others, any suggestions.

In short, a couple of newbs going into a 2 day swingers resort…please advise!