Okay these are some things I do , you don’t necessarily need to do it all . But it’s always good to be aware of a few things . It might come across as a little too much but I’ve had decent success over the years doing the following things .

• Condoms ( Love the ones by Skyn , non-latex and non-allergen)

• Lube
  (I prefer Uberlube)

• It’s always a good idea to have a mix of different types of condoms and lubricants as you never know what specific ingredient one maybe allergic to.

• Drinks and Snacks.
  Wine and some Beer always. For snacks it’s good to keep it light and something that isn’t gassy or spicy . I usually keep some Croissants , A Fruit Plate or some pastries or cupcakes . Keep a Bottle of whipped cream and Chocolate syrup aside , you never know if the lady is in the mood of getting something licked off her body .

• Electrolytes
  I prefer keeping a few bottles of room temperature water , Gatorade or any sugar free option or even Coconut water for that matter.

• Music
  Play some sexy music in the background. It could be jazz or anything you like . Preferably something sexy , something sensual. Just don’t have too many love/Romantic songs , the husband shouldn’t feel like you’re consummating his marriage . The volume should be at a level at which you can have a conversation, nothing too loud .

• Lights
  Keep the Lights dim. I use those LED lights which you can make brighter or dimmer using the app . Unless you’re going to record or click a few pics , too bright a light isn’t necessary.

• Not a bad idea to have a few scented candles lit .

• Mattress and Bed sheets.
  Always keep a few extra bed sheets aside . You never how things can get messy . Make sure they are smell clean and are spotless . Incase you don’t have an extra room , it’s not a bad idea to have an air mattress or an extra Mattress for that matter . You never know how your night could end , maybe there was too much drinking involved or they are too tired and sleepy to drive back . So it works well as a precautionary method . Usually couples communicate before hand as to what the prefer .

• Usually if everyone’s taking a break , people wrap themselves in a towel . But I’ve offered bathrobes in the past . I’ve noticed women love the silky ones and men love the cotton ones . Again it’s not a necessity, it’s just something I do . Keep a pair of slide slippers as well if you can .

• Make sure you keep a bottle of feminine wash , some ph balancing wipes , a few washcloths ( not the harsh ones ), Lots of toilet paper in the bathroom.

• Keep some mouthwash , breathe mints , a pair of new toothbrushes, sanitizer , lots of clean towels , Hair Brush for women and hair ties , makeup removal wipes , make sure there’s a bin in your bathroom . For Toiletries prefer only travel size products as for most you’ll need to throw them away after one use .

• Make sure your bathroom is clean . I mean spick and span . Make sure your toilet isn’t clogged . Do keep a plunger as well .

• I know during sexy time it’s a big turn off if someone keeps checking their phone . But after meeting quite a few 30’s-40’s couples I’ve realised their paternal instinct just kicks in when they receive a text or a call . Many have young kids , so they get worried if they get a call or a text . Don’t take it too personally.

• Performance Enhancing drugs likes cialis / Viagra help massively . You or the Male partner can have performance anxiety , so big deal . Popping 25mg Viagra will help a great deal and make the night a more gratifying experience. Although it’s best to avoid drinking alcohol while consuming such drugs as it can increase the chances of side-effects .

• Keep a bottle of coconut oil Incase she’s in the mood for a sexy massage. Just make sure she isn’t allergic to it .

• Make sure your house is clean and smells nice .

The stuff I mentioned would seem excessive . But I’m not saying you should do them all . It’s just a few things to keep in mind Incase you end up hosting a couple . Best of Luck !