A lot of the complaint posts on here lately boil down to not wanting to actually put in the work required to have great lifestyle experiences.

You reap what you sow in all of life, but in this game especially. It is possible to develop EXTRAORDINARY lifestyle connections if you consistently put in the work.

People complain about their partners:

Worried about jealousy, boundaries, destroying your marriage, etc? It takes a TON of work to have conversation after conversation, day after day, week after week. Don't complain here about your partner's failings - do the hard work and have the hard talks. Eventually your marriage will get so strong you won't recognize it anymore. Or don't, and be a shitty drama couple.

People complain about bad first dates:

Somehow they expect to be able to go onto a dating site, chat with 3 couples, pick one, get a babysitter, and have the best sex of their lives THIS WEEKEND. It's absurd to think with 4 people involved and the zillions of combinations of preferences and fetishes that you're going to have great chemistry with low effort. Four way chemistry is the exception, not the rule! You're going to have to work at dates.

People complain that dating sites suck:

Go to parties. Not getting invited to parties you say? No duh! You're not putting in the work to get invited. You need to go to MANY club nights, take overs, and meet-and-greets to start to build your network, become vetted, and get invited.

People complain about low class dudes wearing their Walmart best:

Then go to a high end club or resort and meet people that take care of themselves. Ah, but you won't because it's too expensive. It's either a priority, and you save up for it, or its not a priority and Cheetos stained sweat pants guy it is.

Lastly, it takes a lot of work to show up looking your best. It takes work to hit the gym, eat right, buy well fitting clothes, get a decent haircut etc. If you're currently a 4, you can probably become a 6 through consistent work. And as a 6, getting to play with other 6s, you're going to have so much more fun and excitement than settling for the low effort crowd.

We don't need to be young supermodels to have a great time in the lifestyle, but we do need to put in the work.