Just don't. You know what comes to mind when I see men talking about "convincing" their wives to swing. Lack.of.respect. if she has to be convinced, it's not something she really wants to do. If you can't respect your wife's words.. what makes you think you'll be a good respectful play partner ? 🤦🏾‍♀️

I had someone message saying they are "new" to swinging. When in reality he was a married man who wanted to "convince" his wife to swing. I was honest with him and he stopped replying to me..I hope you see this post because you need a wake up call.. and the conversation made me sad for your wife.

1. He said his wife doesn't give head. Soooo.. no soft swaps are even possible. He thought if he brings her to a club and its "hot" she may want to give a stranger head (no???)
2. Describes his wife as a bonfied pillow princess. Nothing wrong with that..but I don't know that many men would allow you to play with their wives while getting absolutely nothing from yours.
3. Your wife is telling you she isn't interested...listen to her !!!!!! If you have to convince her swinging isn't for you.

EDIT: Used men for the sole purpose that a man messaged me asking for advice to convince his wife. This goes for anyone! And maybe the better word to use would have been coerce...most of you know what I meant..