We also have a baby. We don’t want to miss out on anything and so the only times we do LS things are at night when she sleeps. We try to go out at least once a month or maybe even every other. We leave her with grandparents or we have one of our siblings come to our house. We also do things separately. So one of us stays home with our baby, while the other goes out and enjoys the night. It helps with being able to go out more often. We spend so much time together, that this actually helps us miss each other and it gets us to bond with our baby more one on one. We have been in the LS for a few years and have made a good group of friends. So if we feel guilty about getting a sitter, going separately with our friends really helps. Finding people online is too time consuming and we arnt getting a sitter to meet someone new. So house parties and LS clubs work best for us. Doing things separately isn’t for everyone, but this is what we have found really works for us 😊