Ive posted before you should still be able to see. Basically my wife suggested a same room swap with a couple we are friends with but i was very nervous at the time and we haven't tried it. You can read my worries i had. Basically I understand she loves me and that wont change but that she'd enjoy sex with the other guy more. There's been zero pressure from anyone. Ive been reading here a lot to get a feel for people's mindsets. Recently my wife kinda readdressed this with me. Still mo pressure. She reitered her love for me and our marriage and how satisfied she is with me sexually but would love to spice things up together. Shes open to thoughts and suggestions but did admit to being very into the idea of swapping. She encouraged me to talk to people and see what experiences theyve had and see if it helps me in any way.

All that to say id love to hear from you fine folks how you feel during and after sex with someone else. Do you see your husbsnd as less exciting? Do you enjoy sex with other men more than him now and if so how has that affected things between you and him? Im getting more and more open to the idea of trying this but understand i may not fully be there yet and figured id just ask the things i was still curious about. Any advice or help is appreciated. Thank you all.