My partner and I are brand new to the LS and are still easing our way in. We’ve been to a club twice and only soft swap so far. Both times we’ve been I’ve been groped. The first time it happened I was told it was super uncommon and it’s against club rules. Official club policy is that you must ask consent before touching anyone. No touching couples engaged in playing unless permission is given. The second time it happened was while I was walking down a hall some guy tried grabbing my blood but got my arm instead. For context I was in the play area but completely wrapped in a towel and while a group trying to find an area. It super frustrating. And while I know I can report them guys to the club it’s also like, by the time I’m able to get to an employee and speak to someone about what happen that person is going to be gone. The club we go to is pretty reputable. Im just wondering if this is common at LS clubs or am I just attracting disrespectful dudes?