Hi guys - being a new unicorn is fun and exciting, but also lonely and sometimes terrifying. Couples have each other to look out for them and all we have is ourselves. I’m pretty young (early twenties) and I enjoy couples that are 35-55. Along with being a unicorn, the age gap can come with a lot of ignorance and potential ‘abuse’ that can happen within the lifestyle.

Something I wish someone shared with me early was the need for boundaries. To actually understand what my boundaries were - it took a lot of failed interactions and being aware of my emotions. If you’re a new unicorn struggling with finding circular joy in the lifestyle I urge you to pause everything, and create a list of boundaries for yourself. If a potential couple says they do not have boundaries, they are either lying or lack communication - neither of which you want.

Boundaries aren’t set in stone. They can change per couple or situation, and overtime can become less necessary with trust...but remember in the beginning, all you have is yourself! So take care of her. 🙂

Here’s a snippet of some of the boundaries I vocalize to couples prior to meeting or playing.

https://imgur.com/a/frVN3Tz