What are peoples perspective on which work out better? We (M40 F34) have been chatting a few people up on Feeld for an upcoming vacation trip but have also been looking at a club that allows “a few” single males on one of the nights we are there.

It’s our first time and it’s hard to judge what would be good for us, there’s the anonymity of the club where we can just pick someone on the spot which I kinda like but not vetting them is a little strange and my wife wants someone that she’s attracted to, not just a cock on a body.

Would love some opinions on pros and cons from other people and why they prefer one or the other

This is not an invitation to slide into my DMs about how you are available or if we are interested.