Looking for advice/support from experienced couples.
Have any of you started into the LS in a swinging / couple swap dynamic and then realized that you were more interested in hotwifing than a couple swap?
My wife and I have played with several couples. She’s played solo once with the husband of a couple we played with together (where I also played with the wife separately) and we’ve also had a few single guy vanilla meets. We are hoping for a single guy MFM on the coming weeks if we can work our schedules and the guy is interested.
What I’m struggling with is that I find myself more and more solely interested in playing the stag role and just doing MFM’s or watching her play. In our couple swaps, I’ve struggled with performance issues with the other women and I’m wondering if it’s because I’m just not that interested in playing with other women. I don’t really fantasize about playing with other women to be honest. When O fantasize, it is always about watching her with other men.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m completely attracted to women, straight, but for some reason I’m not that excited about that part of it.
I guess I’m struggling internally with this idea that I have basically a free pass to play with other hot women (even solo if I want), and I’m just not that interested. I have a situation most men would die for and I’m not that interested. Anyone else encounter this?