I really have appreciated the feedback ive gotten from you all. For the most part youve all been very non-judgmental and helpful. I made a post awhile back about my wife wanting to try a same room swap. If you want to read it....https://www.reddit.com/r/Swingers/comments/kr3juc/33m_potential_newbie_husband_looking_for/

Ive been reading and talking and thinking a ton. Ive talked to the other guy potentially involved to get his thoughts and then last night my wife hinted/joked about it again. I asked her if being shared/sharing is something she honestly wants to try. She told me shes so happy with me/us and our sex life. She said however that we have tons of years ahead of us as a couple and wants us to have fun. I asked what that meant to her and she said..."everything...toys, places, positions, and yes....threesomes and foursomes." I told her i appreciated her honesty and i want us to have fun as well. I was glad i was able to get a straight answer. I asked her how she felt about me sharing nudes of her with thee potential guy in this swap and she said shed love that. I actually did proceed with that and to my surprise i felt pretty good about it.

I guess all this to say i feel like im getting more and more comfortable with the idea of this and just wanted to thank everyone and to get any more thoughts and feedback or suggestions you may have about it or to help me with my fears/potential jealousy. Cheers!

Edit: someone said the original post was deleted which I dont recall ever doing so I'll cut and paste original post.... Hi there. Im 33m. My wife is 34. We have been together 6 years and have 4 kids. Both have been married once before and both ended mutually. We are crazy happy together and i love her like crazy. Long story short....my wife was in a horny mood the other day and asked me what i thought about a same room swap with a couple we are friends with. We are all in a group chat and theyve mentioned that theyve dabbled in it before and had fun and want to do it again with the right couple and "jokingly" told us if we were ever interested to let them know. Well apparently my wife is pretty interested. Ive never given any thoughts into sharing her or needing to be shared. My wife knocks my socks off in bed and is smokin hot. I asked her why she wanted to do this and her response is that she enjoyes seeing people being pleasure. Shd thinks it would be amazing to see everyone sharing each other and enjoying pleasuring each other. She said shes not nervous at all. (Side note...she did say she was uncomfortable trying this with strangers or people we dont really know and trust. I get the pluses and minuses of playing with friends which will be something we all discuss beforehand if we agree to this.) I think im most nervous about the jealousy. Seeing another man have sex with her. Her getting satisfied from someone besides me. I worry maybe she might enjoy him better sexually. I just dont know what to think. I know she loves me and wont leave me but that doesnt mean it couldnt effect our sex life or how she views sex with me alone afterwards. Ive shared that with her and her response has been that she loves me and comes home with me and that its just sex. I told her id give this some thought and look for information or feedback before giving my answer. Any guidance is appreciated. We are in no hurry. Theres no pressure from anyone. Im just trying to see if I can get some info that could help me see things from different perspectives. Cheers to you all.