Hi all - sorry to be so blunt with the title, and I PROMISE this is a legit question and not a dude just trying to fantasize. I'm curious about real life experiences from couples where the wife played with a play partner with a significantly larger cock than she's ever had before.

My wife and I are talking with a single male and based on his pictures he appears to be very large (looks like a legit 8-9" and much more girth than me). I'm slightly above average in length (~6") and girth and my wife has only been with a few guys in her life, all of which according to her were either roughly average in length/girth (similar to me) or one guy was shorter but with more girth. She had one boyfriend in her early teens with a much larger dick but she didn't have sex with him for that reason as she was scared of it. LOL.

We are looking at an MFM with this guy. Should I prepare myself for her to have a completely life-changing experience, or is that more porn vs. reality? I've heard real stories of women that loved it and others that found that it hurt and they preferred more average-size.

We got to talking and she's excited to try it with him because it's something different (and she finds him hot which helps). We are going to purchase a larger dildo this week for her/us to play with to try to get some kind of sense as to whether she enjoys the larger size or not. Recently she's talked about how she can orgasm much more easily via PIV when I'm "super hard" and she can't figure out if that is because of the hardness or because I end up being just long enough to hit the right spot. She wonders if a longer penis might rock her world in a similar way.