Good Morning Swing Community,

Just wanted to share that my wife and I are getting discouraged in our quest for a third.

We both have a fantasy of having a MFM and we’re both very excited to fulfill this fantasy (maybe multiple times after trying it out), but trying to find someone has been absolutely disastrous.

We started with Tinder, which led to multiple matches that stated they only wanted one on one time with her, which is a no from us. So that led to being unmatched and starting to look again.

Next, we turned to a few Reddit pages and advertised, which led to males either ghosting for no reason, and the closest we got was talking to this guy that was in a relationship; who finally Snapchat us last night telling his he got cold feet.

Can we hear some of your stories or best success rates of trying to find a guy for something like this? Potentially suggest best website or app to use? (SLS I know is a good option its just so frustrating trying to navigate that website)