My girlfriend and I are planning our first trip to a LS club soon. We've been to a LS hotel that was kind of slow the night we were there. The most we did was walk around naked and have sex in a room with another couple. We've also been to a clothing optional bar. A couple of guys admired her body with their hands and she made out with another woman. That's all we've done so far. So we want to goto the next level.
We've been discussing this for a couple of months. I've been doing a lot of reading here and listening to podcasts to figure out what I want. She has some LS experience from years ago. We're not looking to date other couples. We prefer the random/anonymous atmosphere of a club. Plus we like music/dancing so it will probably all go together nicely. I'm more about seeing guys (and women) give her attention than me playing with other women but I won't turn that down. In my head I think it's hot to see another guy having sex with her. I don't know if I'll feel that way if it happens in real life. I didn't think anything of other guys having their hands on her breasts.
I have a general idea of what to expect when we go but in a way I don't. I guess women probably dress in attractive/sexy/revealing clothes? There is dressing attractive to see a band/DJ and then there is dressing to attract people to possibly have sex.What should she wear? She's very busty. Should they be on display?
And then there is me. Normally I'm wearing a dress shirt with jeans or dress pants for a night out.
I know about not drinking too much, be friendly and interact with people. What else is there? Is there anything that you didn't know but leaned your first time at a club?
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