Background on us;

We’ve had fun with a few couples in the past- all people we’ve known for quite sometime. Never strangers; or people we’ve met at a club. We are now about to meet a new couple for the first time based on a local swinger site. We are planning to go to their house for drinks. They are very experienced; clubs, separate rooms, one off dates etc. We aren’t worried about that aspect as they recognize we are relatively new ( mostly soft) and like most people in lifestyle they seem pretty relaxed; let’s just see how it goes type of people.

The question

Do we just assume they will know how to break the ice and let them lead? Normally with our other friends it just kind of happened. We’ve read some things on ice breakers on this site : but since they are hosting and much more experienced ; Looking for some great advice ( we love this community) hints on how we should approach.

Thanks!