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A very good reason single guys have a bad name in the lifestyle (pay attention single guys)
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We got on SDC and bought the 2 month membership and our in box was flooded in a day. There were several guys that sounded and looked interesting and one really hit all the marks for us. So we arranged everything to meet him tonight. Didn't hear from him for a day so asked him if he was coming.. Got a message at 7:50 last night cancelling because his room mates girlfriend got COVID, room mate tested positive, so he's going today to get swabbed. Now this may or may not be true but surely when he found out about it on Wednesday there was a possibility that he might have to cancel and it's my opinion he should have done just that or at least told us that it was a possibility so we could make other plans but like a lot of other single guys he waited until the last possible minute to do so. We'll know it's bullshit if he doesn't try again.

That said had he told us he might have to cancel on Wednesday I'd have said 'let's try another time' and not gotten hotel reservations, arranged my work schedule to suit a weekend off, and so on. By the next time I can arrange a weekend off my wife is due to be on her period THEN the next possibility is a month away.

So single guys when you're in the lifestyle consider the lives of people you are affecting when you cancel at the last minute or ghost. THIS is why LS parties and Swingers clubs either have a 'no single male' rule or the cost to get in makes it rather expensive. The other guys have fucked it all up for you. Sorry about to but just maybe if some of you cut the crap like this you'd start getting a better reputation in the LS.

This advice go for couples that pull this too. Sure life happens but it sure seems to happen a lot to us.

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You know what REALLY pisses me off? There were a dozen other guys that we were considering. Sure we could push a bad position and carry on with the day as if nothing ever happened and see if one of the other guys wanted to show up. But I've learned in life never push a bad position. If karma is telling us to stay home this weekend we'll table play time for a month and try again. If he keeps in regular touch we may consider trying again but if not we'll move on. A lot of single guys have the attention span of a gnat on meth. Sure life happens I get it but if you're really interested as a single guy or a couple you'll keep in touch. I'm not talking blow up my kik or my profile every day but every couple of days just to let us know the interest is still and actually there keeps you in consideration. That said if you disappear for three months then pop back in our messages with 'still looking?' the answer is going to be 'ya but not for you. We found you once and found you lacking'

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It's happened to use enough for us to think it's pretty common. Doesn't mean we're going to quit trying or getting jaded. We've just become smart enough not to get dicked for a hotel room if we get flaked on at the last minute. Fortunately in this case I could cancel the room with no charge this morning. The last guy that flaked waited until we were in the room to tell us he had the 'flu'.

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sounds like quite a few do.

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