Seeking feedback from experienced husbands. When you were new, did you have drastically different feelings between seeing your wife in a couples soft swap vs a hotwife and single guy experience? We have a few soft swaps under our belt where I found it sexy to watch my wife with the other husbands. No jealousy or negative feelings at all. Admittedly my attention was split between watching her out of the corner of my eye while playing with the other wife. We are discussing finding a single guy for my wife to have a full swap with, with me watching or possibly joining in for an MFM threesome. My wife is a little concerned about my reaction so is still a little hesitant. I’ve reassured her that I’m good and if I do get any unexpected feelings that is not her fault and we’ll work through it afterward.
Has anyone had a similar experience? Were your feelings different in those different scenarios? Any recommendations?