Hi there. Im 33m. My wife is 34. We have been together 6 years and have 4 kids. Both have been married once before and both ended mutually. We are crazy happy together and i love her like crazy. Long story short....my wife was in a horny mood the other day and asked me what i thought about a same room swap with a couple we are friends with. We are all in a group chat and theyve mentioned that theyve dabbled in it before and had fun and want to do it again with the right couple and "jokingly" told us if we were ever interested to let them know. Well apparently my wife is pretty interested. Ive never given any thoughts into sharing her or needing to be shared. My wife knocks my socks off in bed and is smokin hot. I asked her why she wanted to do this and her response is that she enjoyes seeing people being pleasure. Shd thinks it would be amazing to see everyone sharing each other and enjoying pleasuring each other. She said shes not nervous at all. I rhink im most nervous about the healousy. Seeing another man have sex with her. Her getting satisfied from someobe besides me. I worry maybe she might enjoy him better sexually. I just dont know what to think. I know she loves me and wont leave me but that doesnt mean it couldnt effect our sex life or how she views sex with me alone afterwards. Ive shared that with her and her response has been that she loves me and comes home with me and that its just sex. I told her id give this some thought and look for information or feedback before giving my answer. Any guidance is appreciated. We are in no hurry. Theres no pressure from anyone. Im just trying to see if I can get some info that could help me see things from different perspectives. Cheers to you all.
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